(Closed) He let me off the hook

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1649 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@Starshollow:  This is the kind of waiting post that I like to read. You have concerns and hopes, he has concerns about your hopes, you have a logical adult conversation, and everything works out pretty nicely. You both seem like you’re mature and it’s a good sign for your relationship that you were able to discuss this calmly. I hope you both have a wonderful holiday (whichever you celebrate) and a wonderful New Year!

Post # 4
1848 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@LoggerHead91207:  +1

You have a good guy right there. I bet you dollars to donuts that once you guys get settled, you’ll have such a romantic proposal with a nice sparklet. 🙂

Post # 5
427 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Starshollow:  Haha funny you should write this, because my SO recently blurted out (while we were getting ready for an engagement party nonetheless) “I’m not proposing before Christmas” *shock horror face* and I burst into tears. I haven’t been waiting so long, so I’d rather just keep hoping. It is happening soon though and for that I am glad.

I love the honest discussions though, no dodging the subject. Even when the discussion gets emotional, it is always better to be on the same page. Very happy for you both to enjoy your happy happy holidays together without the disappointment 🙂

Post # 6
5107 posts
Bee Keeper

I am so glad that you guys are on the same page. You are doing the right thing!


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