Post # 31
- Wedding: February 2018 - Disney\'s Grand Floridian Resort & Spa
How gross is he!? I know how painful it can be finding things out on social media after-the-fact. I promise you will be on here soon posting about the amazing guy you end up finding after this has passed. Oh and believe me, if he did fool you then it won’t be long before the same thing happens to her – and the next girl – and the next. All while you’re in the best place possible: far away from him. Keep your chin up, Bee!
Post # 32
Sweetcece : thank you for this and for this beautiful idea to write a letter to myself. I will definitely be doing that. I stayed home from work today, I just needed a day to myself and to rest my body. I also need to just reflect today and process since there is so much going on. Last night I went out for dinner with a friend for my birthday which was nice, I got home and sat down with my roommate and we made a list of the “Non-negotiables” that I will look for in my next relationship. It was pretty liberating to realize that I do want and need more than he could ever have given me.
Thank you all for your support, here’s to hoping 27 is a better year ahead. Xoxo
Post # 33
Happy belated birthday! I’m glad you are rid of that jerk. You deserve so much better and he deserves a nasty STD (not save the date, though it would be appropriate revenge when you find someone so much better). Hugs!
Post # 34
First of all, HUGS and Happy Birthday!
I have been there, and I can say you will figure out how to trust again when you find the right one!
I was engaged at age 21 to my high school sweetheart. Things got rocky in our relationship after he got his own place. I was in college about 40 minutes away, and most of our problems revolved around him always expecting me to go to his place instead of him visiting me. He worked a normal 8-5 job in the town I lived in, while I was in college and working 30 hours a week at night, so long story short, it became a huge issue that he would no longer come to my place and always expected me to drive out to his place.
Apparently, he started talking about our issues to his friend’s sister, and he eventually cheated. He told me he only kissed her and later that day I found out it was more, to which he finally admitted to that as well. We went back and forth on whether or not we could reconcile, but ultimately ended it for good. He later married that girl and divorced within a year because he caught her cheating on him. When this happened, he actually called ME crying and apologizing for cheating on me…this was like 3 years after we broke up!
About 8 months after we broke up, I met my now Darling Husband. It was very difficult for me to allow myself to trust him, and after explaining my past to him and telling him what I needed from him to help me get over my trust issues, I was able to move past those issues and have a healthy relationship.
I guess my point is, karma is a b*tch–so he’ll get what’s coming to him…and when you find the right one, you’ll be able to work through those trust issues and let the past be in the past. Be happy you’re free of him and move on to better things!
Post # 35
cl1119 : Poor bee! Happy Birthday! You need to go out and celebrate you. Because you rock and he sucks. My ex did something similar, except we were still together when he got tagged in a romantic photo in BOSTON with a woman even though we lived in Kansas City. Work trip my ass. Guess what? I am a million times happier now. I never realized how much him sucking, made me miserable. I thought it ws me?!?! But nope we are awesome they are dipshits. It’s a hair flip. <3
Post # 36
throwaway1359 : I’m so sorry you had to go through this too. I really wouldn’t wish this feeling upon my worst enemy. Thank you for your words of encouragement- it’s time to focus on me and get back to being who I was before him. Luckily I already have a great therapist and can’t wait to see her in a few days! Hope you are healing, too xoxo
Post # 37
nowyouareaghost : Ha! This made me laugh 🙂 needed that today.
Post # 38
herrera2016 : wow! I live in Boston and SO wish I was there for this years ago so I could have called him out on his shit for you! Haha