- 2 months ago
My dear Bees….
Not sure if you remember me and my story about the 50 year old boyfriend living with his mom and always looking at other women, who, two months ago, after a huge fight, left me.
I will like to give you an update.
He completely disappeared from my life, disconnected from social media and just like that after breaking up with me, he never ever contacted me again.
The moment he left me, I decided to let him go and I also never contacted him again.
This breakup really broke my heart…and I was devastated…but now I see this as a blessing in the sky. His behavior towards the end, really proof the time of man he is.
I have taken some time to evaluate the entire situation and I got into counseling immediately and now I am able to see things clearly.
Thanks God he removed himself from my life.
I was able to determine that the man I once loved was a covert narcissist. Someone with mayor internal issues including insecurities and self-steam problems. Not the man for me.
Today, I am working on spotting this type of individuals before I continue to date them. They are really not good for you.
You see, at the beginning, I totally felt for him and ignored all the signs. LOVE!!! But as time passed, I was feeling crazy, exhausted and a lot of times feeling guilty.
His lack of empathy was incredible and he was always gaslighting me.
Today he is the victim of our breakup. He will never see his mistakes and admit them to me.
In a matter of fact, he probably thinks that everything that happened was probably my fault. I really don’t care.
I am free. I take this experience as a learning life lesson. The universe did its magic by removing such a toxic person from my life.
And I am grateful. Moving forward…trusting the system.