(Closed) He Loves Animals?

posted 6 years ago in Pets
  • poll: Does he love Animals?
    Yes - but needs to learn how to take care of them better! : (7 votes)
    11 %
    No - He would take better care of them if he did! : (58 votes)
    89 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Obviously, he has issues and should never be allowed to own animals again.  Someone should call animal protection on him now because of the ones he does have are injured, ill, and uncared for.  They cannot speak for themselves, someone should do it for them and at least pick up a phone to let the authorities know. 

    The woman should leave, at some point in time she has to take care of herself.  The others are adults and can take care of themselves.  It isn’t her responsibility to “protect” anyone by putting herself in harms way and a dangerous situation.

    Post # 4
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    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    @tksjewelry:  If this is reported wouldn’t the woman fiancee be charged with the new charges too? 

    I agree with her leaving totally and she should have outside help if she is scared.

    Post # 5
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    @tksjewelry:  +1

     

    He does NOT love animals, he tortures them with neglect.  She should leave immediately and alert the authorities about the threats he’s made.  If she thinks he’ll act on them, she can geta restraining order and so can the other individuals if they feel the same way.  

    Post # 7
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    Bumble bee

    I feel for those poor animals.  This makes me very sad.  The woman is torturing them too by allowing this to continue.  

    Post # 9
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: January 2011

    There isn’t enough information to know if he actually loves the animals, he might.  Many animal hoarders do, but they have a mental illness which makes it too difficult for them to take care of them properly, it sounds like this might be the case here too.

    It sounds like he needs help, and it’s up to his fiancee whether she stays or not.  If she were my friend I would recommend that she at the very least move out until he gets some help and gets his shit together.  The threats are also a big concern, and if he seemed lucid at the time I would tell her that she deserves and could do so much better.

    Post # 10
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    @Sunflower–girl:  Agreed.  By not doing anything, she’s just as bad.  

    Post # 11
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    @WritingBee: You should call the police or animal protection yourself.  Maybe she needs a way to get out, and maybe a day or two in jail will get her to a protected place where she will be safe.  As a friend or family member, you would be doing her a service.  Any decent attorney should be able to get any charges dropped, if he treats her half as bad as the animals then (any he probably does) then an attorney will should able to show that.

    Post # 12
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    sorry, but no- he does not LOVE animals. Loving animals means providing adequate care. He clearly does not love animals but loves to hoard them. I hope the trial is swift, and a guiltry charge is the outcome.

    Post # 13
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    1405 posts
    Bumble bee

    @WritingBee:   I am sorry but you are making excuses for this woman.  Buy a digital recorder and record him making threats.  Contact an organization and get out.

    Post # 14
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    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    @Sunflower–girl:  okay, how is she supposed to record him so he doesn’t know? Can this be used in court? I though recordings were not allowed to be used as “evidence” 

    I am also friends with this woman…

    Post # 15
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    @happyface:  recording laws vary so you would have to check with the local district attorney or prosecutor.  While recordings may not be able to be used for convictions, they can be used to show innocence.

    Recording someone is easy.  There are many phone apps that can do this.  There are womens shelters that will provide such phones should she need one, you will have to call around to get one.

    I also saw a pen recorder online that is inexpensive, around $20.  A friend of mine uses those for undercover reporting.

    Just do a google search on recording devises and you will find one that will work for her situation.

    Post # 16
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    5428 posts
    Bee Keeper

    @tksjewelry:  The pen recorder might work best in her situation. He will not be wise to that. Thanks! 

    What do you think writing bee?

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