(Closed) He loves me, He loves me not

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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1480 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

@lovenlogic:  What specifically doesn’t he feel the same about? If he has doubts then he needs to discuss them with you! This might be a stagnant relationship for you, the question is: would you be ok just being this guys girlfriend for the rest of your life instead of his wife? If you are, great. If not, then you need to reevaluate your relationship and discuss YOUR feelings about this with him.

Post # 4
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2122 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - DD born 2015 DS born 2017

@lovenlogic:  I think your decision depends on your current age and comes down to your personal timeline. If you want to have a home and family by age XX then do you think your boyfriend will change and be ready by then? If not, you’ll need to leave him and find someone else to fulfil your needs.

Post # 5
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3256 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Over the 8 months I spent deciding to propose, then backing down, (out of fear, uncertainty, a feeling that I just needed to think longer because of the magnitude of the decision) repeatedly, starting at the 2.5 year mark, I could well have given that answer if I was pressed at some of those moments.  How long have you been living together?  It could just be a period where he’s unhappy, or feeling bored/stagnant with the relationship.  It could also be that he’s checked out.  It could mean a lot of things.  Keep talking, but try not to be pressuring him in any certain direction.  Maybe he needs to figure out exactly how he feels and what he wants, and maybe that will take him some time.

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