- 8 years ago
So last weekend my sweetie and me went with another couple to watch the two men bungee jump. We really get along well with this couple and J and I are having a fun time getting to know them. They are similar to us relationship wise, and have been dating 1 month longer than we have. After we got back to our city we passed by a ring shop while looking for food. All four of us went in there and looked at the rings. It was a lot of fun! Later on I asked J if he was ever going to take me ring shopping, since he will probably be buying my ring online. He said he would some day. I asked if he had fun with B looking at rings for their women. He said it was less awkward having someone else there. So, then I said that all four of us should go ring shopping sometime and make a fun time of it and he agreed that he would connect with B and S to go ring shopping when the time came. So, the thing is, my guy responds favorably to exposure. Small gentle exposure seems to really help get him excited and not feel as nervous etc. How do we do that without it being pressure?