Post # 31
For the record, I do think it’s terrible that he led you to believe he knew his own mind on this when he did not. I think the bar is much higher when you involve another person and definitely when the person in question is firmly CFBC.
I also think all this should have taken place in an in person conversation.
But bottom line is what’s done is done. I’m not sure what you think should happen now. Move on.
Post # 32
I do wish I hadnt broken up with him via text. It was impulsive and I was upset when I did it.
Also, I never ignored red flags. I tried very hard to avoid this scenario by a. Telling men before we ever even met that I don’t want kids b. Discussing it when I did see red flags, even if he seemed to just be kidding about future kids etc.
I truly wouldn’t be upset with him if he simply changed his mind but he intentionally downplayed his feelings so he could be with me. He hijacked my time and affection bc he’s selfish. He has always felt this way.
If I ever do hear from him, I’ll let y’all know.
Post # 33
We couldn’t talk in person bc he is in SC for school until late October. I didn’t want to wait another 2 1/2 weeks to dump him in person bc I couldn’t imagine keeping up a charade until I could dump him to see his face. I do wish we had talked and mutually agreed to part.