He proposed but refuses to speak about wedding planning

posted 3 months ago in Engagement
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  • Post # 122
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2010

    why214 :  

    YAY!!! Happy dancing right now.

    Congratulations on your new and much improved life!

    You have done so well, I am just thrilled for you and your children.  You’ll find your happiness level going up with each passing day.  You may have a few backsliding episodes where you find yourself missing the Fantasy Guy.  But, those will pass, as long as you don’t act on them.  Just don’t.

    Stick with No Contact, no good will come out of talking to that guy.

    Thank you so much for posting such a wonderful update!

    Can we see some pics of your new pad?

     

    Post # 123
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    260 posts
    Helper bee

    Congrats!! So glad to hear you are moving forward. Good things are coming your way!! Stick to your guns with the no contact. He had all the chance in the world to step up and he didn’t. The last thing he should get is any more of your time or attention. Hugs!!

    Post # 126
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    20 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2018

    why214 :  This is such a beautiful update 🙂 Thank you for stopping by to let us know the good news! The right relationship is out there for oyu, I just know it.

    Post # 128
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    8792 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 2010

    why214 :  

    So typical.  The can’t stand it when they sense that they’re losing control over one of their victims.  They can alternate between love bombing and brutal attacks, depending on their moods.

    No Contact is really the only healthy way to go.  He has nothing to say that you need to hear.  Thankfully, you don’t have real estate, assets, and children together that need to be negotiated.

    Never expect an abuser to initiate No Contact.  For them, no relationship is ever truly over.

    Where are the pics of your new place?

    Post # 130
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    65 posts
    Worker bee

    You’re so strong! I read through the thread from the beginning. You’re doing the best thing for yourself and your kids! 

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