- 7 years ago
Ok for those of you who know me may know that my fiancee (yikes i get to call him fiancee now omg..) and I have already planned most of the wedding in like 2-3 weeks and I did write a post a few days ago expressing my uncomfortable feelings about this…I mean I knew I was engaged but felt disappointed I didnt’ get to experience what many girls experience with engagement, the whole element of surprise and planning the wedding after the official engagement.
But anyhow he has been really supportive and understanding through the whole process and our relationship has been so great all this time so it’s ok, not that of a big deal.
Anyways I’m officially engaged as of today!!
He is so cute….When I met him I noticed within 5 minutes that a ring box was stuck in his jean pocket..it wasnt that THAT obvious because he normally has his wallet and cellphong and coins so the pockets always look so full anyways but today it was definitely noticeable…He didnt know that I knew the whole time and I could also see him touching the ringbox over his jean pocket a couple of times today so that definitely confirmed that it was THE ring box.
So after having lunch out with was followed by a nice massage, we went home and spent the whole afternoon cuddling up as we usually do and I kinda fell asleep (well not totally as I kept thinking about the ring and when he was gonna propose). I was just resting my eyes and at one stage he said out of the blue, “Will you marry me”. I had my eyes shut and pretended to be asleep and was thinking…what the hell was that….?!?!?! I “woke up” 5 minutes later and asked him if he was serious..He did say it in a cute baby voice (our thing) and I just didn’t think he was serious….. and if he was I was a little disappointed…He didnt even have the ring at that stage….
And then he started to get all dressed up to show me the suit that his father got from Italy and wore everything he is going to wear to the wedding including the tie and the hankerchief….he looked damn fine!! lol and that made me cry once again (im such a cry baby)…then i thought he’d propose like that but he didnt…!!!!!!!!!! inside i was like ..HURRY UP ALREADY
Then he got undressed and got back into his tshirt and boxers lol…and came up to me (who was already a bit disappointed that the proposal didnt really happen) and i asked him if his proposal was real (you can expect my face expression by now)..
And he started telling me from his heart how much he loved me and how im the girl of his dreams and how no one takes care of him like i do…..and finished off with “will you be my wife” and presented me with the beautiful ring in front of me which I had been waiting for so long… I burst into tears and hugged him (getting teary eyed writing about it now) and he was like, “Well that is a yes???” “YES YES YES + more crying”….
Hehehe…definitely not how i imagined it in my PJs with messed up hair and smudged eyeliner and him in his tshirt and boxers but we had the sweetest evening ever. I realised today that he had been stressing out about the proposal and worried he’s not a poet or good at organising special events…He’s good with words when he writes them down (he always writes me love letters) but can’t speak them out to me in person…Of course I really want him to but thats just the way he is..I think he is shy even with me…!! (Totally opposite to me who loves to express verbally).. He went all shy afterwards too….. 🙂 he admitted that he really isn’t good at this sorta stuff… Definitely not the most romantic head over heels type of proposal but he’s my darling and we’re getting married because we love each other so much so thats all that matters!!! We stared at the ring non stop today hehehe
here it is: