- 6 years ago
So without going into a ton of detail we were having issues of my kids sperm donor wanting to get his parental rights back (he signed them away). Technically he could get them back UNLESS an adoption is in the works, and he already consented to an adoption to any future husband I may have. We were freaking out about this yesterday and weighing our options and SO was like, I’m off work tomorrow lets just go get married then and start the adoption! It blew.me.away! I knew he wanted to get married and believed him but I had no idea he’d really go do it tomorrow if we needed to. He finally proved to me that he DOES want to get married and adopt my kids, no question. I’m supposed to finally get my ring by Christmas, but this totally helped calm my nerves in the waiting game (at least for now!) His feelings for me aside, I can’t even explain how much it means to me that my kids well being is that important to him. He’s going to be an amazing father to them (and already is an amazing father figure!)
We decided to hold off until if/when we get any legal notices and not get married today, haha! I really don’t want to give up our dream of a Vegas wedding with just our parents and why should we let sperm donor ruin our plans if we don’t have to!?!
Eeeeeee! So excited and happy!