Post # 1
Me and SO have discused a basic timeline of when we want to get engaged and what we want to acomplish beforehand. Both want to be fully ready before taking that next step. Not that we couldnt get married right now and be fine, but the stress would be much less at the right time.
Anywhooo, we went out a few weeks back and both had a little too much to drink and the topic came up. He is TERRIBLE at keeping secrets about suprises, presents you name it. So we were talking time line a little more and he kept saying we need to get this and that done and I told him what I wanted to have completed. Then he pretty much spills all the beans of exactly how he wants to do it!! I was excited, in tears and speachless. Tiny bit dissapointed I know now. But so touched he has such an elaborate plan.
Since that night he hasnt said anything about exact plans or the fact that he spilled the beans. Don’t know if he thinks I don’t remember since I had a few too many or if he had enough that he doesnt remember he told me. Oh well. I’m happy to know that it means so much to him, and he wants to do everything “right”.
Any bees have their SO do the same thing? Im honestly not disapointed because it is so romantic 🙂
Post # 3
He didn’t spill the beans on anything, but my engagement was very, very open. We decided that the time was right for us to get engaged, so I knew the day he decided he would start putting back money for the ring, I was watching over his shoulder when he ordered it, and he tried to keep the day it arrived from me, but…. his sister spilled that one. It didn’t matter. I still giggled my way through his proposal.
Post # 4
That’s so exciting! Don’t be disappointed, just know he loves you. That is what I am trying to remember because I keep bringing it up and I feel like I am pushing him too much, but he won’t tell me anything.
Post # 5
He never spilled the beans but during our 1.5 anniversary dinner he was talking about future plans and saving. I said, saving for what?! Never expecting an actual answer. SO was definitely under the influence and his inhibitions much lower than usual lol. He said: planning, you know… :wink:. I acted as if i DIDNT know! And the topic was never brought up again. Now I definitely know its been on his mind since last July and happening this year! I do like surprises though so i dont want to know more.