He said he is not attracted to me?

posted 1 week ago in Relationships
Post # 61
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174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2019

A- He is lying! Much easier to blame his impotence issues on you and your weight which you already are insecure about than own up to the fact he has a problem. You could lose 50 lbs and look like Victoria Secret model and he would still have these issues. It’s him not you! 

B- From experience I can say, If he loves you and is attracted to you he would be attracted to you at any size. Pregnant ect Get a new BF! You are worth so much more than your current relationship!

Post # 62
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

kayla037 :  break up with him and when you do look him right in the eyes and tell him its because his dick is too small

Post # 63
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130 posts
Blushing bee

So you need to tone up because he has a small dick? TF did I just read? Girl, leave him.

Post # 64
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7683 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

What a pathetic piece of shit. 

I would dump him over email and include a link to penis enlarging products.

Then I’d get back in the dating field. Your own words: “I’ve never dealt with a situation like this since my past relationships have complimented my figure.” This is not a you problem; this is a pathetic shit-head boyfriend problem. Other fish in the sea, bee…NEXT!

Post # 65
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420 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

kayla037 :  Break up with him. You’re ONLY 6 months in and he feels that way? Let’s say you end up getting in amazing shape and he’s super attracted to you, everything is great and you get married… what’s going to happen if you end up putting weight on again? If you get pregnant? Start a medicine that causes weight gain? Get injured and can’t exercise? Then he’s not attracted to you anymore… what will happen then??? You can find someone better. Someone that will be attracted to you no matter what. 

Post # 66
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

What’s the only similarity between this dude’s dick and Arya Stark’s sword?  They’re both called needles.  Although, Arya’s Needle is actually able to penetrate things.  Using your “weight” to justify why he can’t perform.  Gross.  GTFO.  

Post # 67
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

indigobee :  

Yes, perspective is everything.

The takeaway, I would hope, is that we all, as we mature, learn to accept the bad with the good.  Crushing on some perfect, highly Photoshopped celeb is something most of us learn to leave behind in adolescence.

 

Post # 68
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Blushing bee

Yikes, OP. I’m way late on this and I’m sure you’ve received enough sound advice already (which I agree with).

Just wanted to say that I commend you for doing things to make you happy and take care of your body. I’m sorry this a-hole made you feel like this because you truly don’t deserve that. 

Post # 69
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121 posts
Blushing bee

coffeecakez :  OMG! I couldn’t agree more. It is so obvious the guy has problems in this area and chose to blame it on the OP. What a jerk.

Post # 70
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

I dated a guy once who said shit just like this. A few months after we broke up, he decided he was gay. 

Post # 71
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348 posts
Helper bee

If for some reason you are still on the fence after all of this fantastic advice, know that his behavior is signaling that he will probably cheat on you and then blame you for it.  He is toxically insecure.  You are worthy of better.

Post # 72
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2021 - Kauai, HI

Do you really want to be with someone who lets your body get in the way of expressing his love?  What if you get all “toned” and then get pregnant or depressed or age 40 and can’t get to that “toned” place.  I get wanting your partner to be healthy but this a big no for me.  Get someone that loves every square inch of you!!

Post # 73
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: City, State

indigobee : yes, generally the quote is cliche AF.

Yeah he can’t handle it, he has issues.

Post # 74
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: City, State

annabeth929 :  I’ve wondered that about my ex. He never kissed me or touched my boobs, and he only had sex with me from behind, without looking at me.

Post # 75
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Newbee

You are not being too dramatic! This is awful and abusive behaviour. I hope you get yourself out of this situation, no woman deserves to be treated like this.

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