He said he is sexually unsatisfied ..

posted 1 week ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Unfortunately, I’m sure others have experienced this however nobody should have to. This is not okay and you need to end the relationship immediately. It’s not “like” he doesn’t care, he actually does not care. Please, please end this relationship and never look back. Know that this is 100% unacceptable.

Post # 3
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7386 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Wow what. Why are you with this dbag?

Post # 4
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2076 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

Some people just aren’t compatible sexually. It sounds like the two of you have very different preferences. He also sounds like a douche bag. I’d throw this fish back in the pond. 

Post # 6
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1793 posts
Buzzing bee

You two are sexually incompatible.  He likes it rough to the point of inflicting pain on others.  He doesn’t care what you want.  That isn’t likely to change for either of you.  Leave and find someone with similar sexual appetites.  

Post # 8
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Bumble bee

Your future is not with this man, RUN!!

Post # 10
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361 posts
Helper bee

 He is only after his own selfish sexual needs.   

You have expressed your dislikes on how he treats you during sex and he has turned on about you.  Honestly you know very well this guy isn’t the one for you.    

There is kinky rough sex but you would have to be someone who consents and likes pain/pleasure to be compatiable.   

It is clear you are someone who prefers making love, gentle and slow.   Leave this guy, you will find someone else.  Even at age 30 there is time to find someone else.

Post # 11
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Newbee

just continue to talk to him about this problem, i think it will be solved through your two efforts. Maybe he didnt mean to hurt you. BUTTT, if he continues his rudeness, you’d better to leave him.

Post # 12
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361 posts
Helper bee

jg88998 :  It is not your fault.   Don’t blame yourself,  I don’t think he is dumb or immature.  More like he is inconsiderate about your needs too and only thinking for himself.   He sounds like a guy who is into really rough sex and is kinky.   

Have you told him to stop while having sex?  Does he force you into sexual things that you don’t want to do?  If so then that is spousal rape.

Post # 13
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Helper bee

Dump him.  

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