(Closed) He Saw the Dress! RANT And Superstition?

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
9649 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

definitely keep the dress! it is your dream dress, just cos your Fiance sorta saw it is no reason to get a new one! I don’t know if you watch Sex and the City, but Harry saw Charlotte’s dress, and they had the happiest marriage! so maybe it is luck but good luck?

Post # 5
1715 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Keep the dress. he only quickly saw the pic on a phone from a stock photo so that doesnt count. I think the story behind it is way too much to loose.

Post # 6
3668 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Keep it! It sounds like it’s THE dress. Seeing the stock photo for a split second on a cell phone screen is nothing compared to seeing you in it in person on your wedding day!

Post # 7
149 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

@katatatkat: Go dress shopping and take photos of yourself in another dress. tell him youre considering changing it. when he sees the new pics, as hes bound to do before the wedding hell have forgotten the first one!

If you love it, wear it. dresses look so different on than in photos x  

Post # 8
4327 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Keep the dress, worry about more important things. Life’s too short to expend this much energy on it. You loved it and searched high and low for it. Just embrace it.

Post # 9
1576 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Oh stop being silly! All your Fiance knows is that it’s a long dress with some sort of pattern on it. He won’t even recognize it on your wedding day! Men are clueless about things like details about a dress.

Post # 10
247 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Keep it! It’s by far the nicest unconventional wedding dress I’ve ever seen. Your fiancé hasn’t seen your dress he has seen a picture and even if he had seen your dress a superstition is what you make of it.  

Post # 11
1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

He won’t remember anything about it in 2 years… honestly… 

Post # 12
1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

He’s male…and your wedding is TWO years away. He won’t remember a thing.

I showed my Fiance the dress I really like, then two days later I sent him the same dress in a different color and his response was “oh wow, I like that one too. It’s so different from the one you sent me before” Really FI? It’s the same dress. LOL. So really, he won’t remember.

Post # 13
331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I agree that he will hardly remember it in two years. Once you are all done up it will be  totally different in person than a poor quality cell phone pic. 

Post # 14
2917 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 1996

You ARE being a little insane, but that’s understandable – the dress is important to you! But you should totally keep it and wear it. Your Fiance will forget all about what it looked like in a few weeks, and seeing it on YOU on your wedding day will be a completely different experience. Take deep breaths. Your dress is magical and special and nothing can take that away from it.

Post # 15
2086 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012 - Pippin Hill Farm & Vineyards

He’s a dude.  Do you really think he saw all that much on a phone screen?  Stop worrying.  There are apt to be other bumps in the road in your wedding planning and this isn’t one of them. 

Ask him what you wore last Tuesday. 

He’s not going to remember anything other than “long, white dress.”

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