Post # 107
I think you need to clarify with him about marraige before moving in. Once again, you’re reading “hints” and reading into things he hasn’t explicitly said, which will only get you into trouble. He seems like a pretty blunt guy. Ask blunt questions. And don’t read into them more than he says back to you.
Sounds like it went pretty well overall, though!
Post # 108
Glad to help 🙂 Obviously I don’t know how it will turn out for you, but he seems like a very sincere, well-intentioned man. And if he does turn out to be your happily ever after, you will know that every time he says he loves you, he means it from the bottom of his heart 🙂
Post # 109
HE LOVES YOU!!!! He’s just scared to say it. Give hime some time.
I think what he is saying is that he does love you but he thinks that saying “I love you” = “let’s get married” and it’s completely understandable that he isn’t ready for marriage after only 9 months.
Post # 110
Thank you bees for all your help, we had a wonderful weekend together as always
Post # 112
So many people say “I love you” and don’t mean it. To me those words mean nothing because they’re tossed around so nonchalantly. What really shows you how people feel is actions, and it seems like this guy really does care about you. I agree with your decision to stick it out for awhile longer and see what happens. Good luck! XO