(Closed) He says he doesn't believe in love? WTF

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: What would you do if he didn't end it?

    Stay and not say anything

    Peace Out

    Give it more time

    Tell him I love him and l see what happens, even if it ends at least I'm honest and he knows

  • Post # 107
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    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I think you need to clarify with him about marraige before moving in. Once again, you’re reading “hints” and reading into things he hasn’t explicitly said, which will only get you into trouble. He seems like a pretty blunt guy. Ask blunt questions. And don’t read into them more than he says back to you.

    Sounds like it went pretty well overall, though!

    Post # 108
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    2695 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2008

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    @Bazinga:  Glad to help 🙂  Obviously I don’t know how it will turn out for you, but he seems like a very sincere, well-intentioned man.  And if he does turn out to be your happily ever after, you will know that every time he says he loves you, he means it from the bottom of his heart 🙂

    Post # 109
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    HE LOVES YOU!!!! He’s just scared to say it. Give hime some time.

    I think what he is saying is that he does love you but he thinks that saying “I love you” = “let’s get married” and it’s completely understandable that he isn’t ready for marriage after only 9 months.

    Post # 111
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

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    @Bazinga:  happy for you 🙂

    Post # 112
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    So many people say “I love you” and don’t mean it. To me those words mean nothing because they’re tossed around so nonchalantly. What really shows you how people feel is actions, and it seems like this guy really does care about you. I agree with your decision to stick it out for awhile longer and see what happens. Good luck! XO

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