(Closed) He seems sketchy ,Should meet this man…?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 31
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

You might need an internet safety class.

Post # 32
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Bumble bee

I would say no…if you say he is sketchy and the things he says are BS and you don’t like that he doesn’t want to talk on the phone, I wouldn’t waste my time.  The right guy would be willing to put himself out there for you.  This guy could be hiding something.  Use your good judgement…and if you do decide to go out there to meet him, don’t go alone and let others know where you are going.  I wouldn’t bother with a guy who can’t meet me halfway, but it is your decision.

Post # 33
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Agree with the other bees. Go with your gut and stay safe! 

Post # 34
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

500,000,000 times no. Just NO. 

Post # 35
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Helper bee

Oh God NO! Please do not go meet this creep!

Post # 36
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

leamelly :   No.  Just reading your post made me feel terrified.  NO.  

Post # 37
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Helper bee

If your avatar is you, you’re way too good-looking to spend your time finding guys on Facebook.

The Facebook phantom sounds like Jack the Ripper luring you into his lair of torture and death.

Post # 38
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

Hell no. Catfish alert. He can’t skype? He lives 30 min from Ottawa and doesn’t know it at all and barely speaks English?? Unless he just moved to the area that doesn’t add up. 

Post # 39
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Oh please no. Really hoping for an update where you said no and blocked this weirdo. 

Post # 40
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Sugar bee

I smell a catfish!!

Post # 41
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223 posts
Helper bee

Nah. I’d be kinda weirded out too. 

Post # 42
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Blushing bee

If by Québec, you mean Gatineau then please no. There are some real creeps out here. (Honestly, he could live anywhere and I would still say no. That just doesn’t sound safe. Sorry bee!)

Post # 43
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Yeah stay away from that guy! Any decent man should not even ask you to meet him in his town without you having seen his face. There are way too many creeps out there to take that risk

Post # 44
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

NO.  Just NO.

That said, you can meet good people on line–I met my Dh that way.  But this guy is not one of them.  At best, he’s rude and inconsiderate.  At worst, he’s dangerous.

Post # 45
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

lovesbooks99 :  

This.  When I was dating Dh, I lived out in the boonies about an hour from him, some of it on dirt roads.  He made the drive over and over again and never once a word of complaint about it.

The pleasure of your company should be worth a little inconvenience.

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