(Closed) He seems sketchy ,Should meet this man…?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 46
Member
1613 posts
Bumble bee

leamelly :  no, something sounds dodgy here. I would listen to your gut instinct and not go.

He is not talking to you on the phone, won’t use Skype and isn’t willing to make an effort to see you. It’s all equals him messing you around. 30 minutes is not a long time to drive and meet, he’s making excuses.

Post # 47
Member
309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: LA Athletic Club

Absolutely no! With the technology we have there’s no reason he can’t skype. There’s red flags everywhere and it seems dangerous. 

Post # 48
Hostess
8194 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

leamelly :  Oh my gosh! Nope. No no no no no. Trust your gut. A decent and non threatening person would have talked to you on the phone, or found a way to skype you even for a minute so to prove he is the same person in real life as he is on FB and he would make the effort to come to your area. Making you go out of area to meet him would really ring alarm bells for me. If you do still go, please tell someone who he is on FB and give them any contact details you may have for him and keep in touch with a friend or family member, but I really think you should give this guy a miss. Be safe. x

Post # 49
Member
28 posts
Newbee

How dare any of you question whether or not this Bee should give this romance a shot? He could be the PERFECT gentleman. But he might also hack her to bits. You never know until you try right? 

For real though, please don’t go. This guy sounds super creepy. Be safe.

Post # 50
Member
627 posts
Busy bee

Nope. Sounds creepy already. Not worth it. 

Post # 53
Member
9623 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2016

honestly, i just read the title.  No.

You will find men to meet who don’t seem sketchy.  Why waste your time on those that do?  

Post # 54
Member
994 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2018

glad to have read your update, because this is how women go missing.

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