(Closed) He slipped yesterday….I am becoming a PITA

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1181 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

OK IM IN THE EXACT SAME BOAT! lol it is exciting yet torture at the same time right?! 

My SO went to 5-6 jewelry stores before he found one he liked. And has been back to that place 3x since- (1st to pick out the ring and diamond, 2nd with my mom to get her approval, 3rd to place the deposit and have the ring sized)…

so your SO could be double triple checking the ring, making a payment, getting it sized, maybe the jeweler had to order your setting from the designer?… its a good thing he has been back. It means he is really doing the work that is necessary when making such a big purchase. 

I want to know, and for it to be a surprise. So I know the week that it will happen (he made a huge slip then decided to give me just a little bit of details to satisfy me yet keep it a surprise). He stinks at surprises… so I am sure Ill know the day as it get closer


YAY FOR YOU! So happy! Enjoy the excited torture. It builds anticipation- there are very few good surprises in life! 



Post # 4
366 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

@Penelopeee:  Maybe he’s having something extra done like engraving, or maybe he picked it up? But it’s happening that’s what’s important!

Post # 5
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

He could be paying it off after a cooling off period…or getting a loose stone set or picking it up after it’s ready. It took 3 days where I went to get it set, sized, and ready to pick up.

I know it sounds impossible but focus on something else. I’ve been reading…a lot.

Post # 6
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Penelopeee:  Maybe he decided against the one you picked out together, or maybe he has it on a layaway payment plan and had to make a payment.

Post # 7
1404 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Whatever the reason, at least you know the ring is on its way. Try not to think about it too much and go get a manicure. 😉

Post # 8
3420 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

What’s a PITA?

Post # 9
4352 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Sapphire-Dreamer:  pain in the behind. But using the word that starts with A instead of behind.

Post # 12
2523 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Penelopeee:  Um, YES this is it.

For real real, not for play play.

Wax that crotch girl.

Post # 13
6355 posts
Bee Keeper

I know exactly what you mean! My FH is terrible at keeping surprises too.

I have decided it’s adorable, because, it’s the way it is and it isn’t going to change… plus, hey, at least there’s no chance our men would be able to keep a double-life from us huh, we know we’re getting the real deal.

Looking into my crystal ball I also recommend some new nice undies for you, too!

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