(Closed) He told me today that he STILL hasn’t bought the ring

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2892 posts
Sugar bee

That doesn’t make any sense. Did you ask him why he didn’t go with any of the settings you guys picked out? Because, obviously and like you said, you picked them because you like them so how is it possible to pick the wrong thing if he picks something you said you liked? There something else going on? Because that couldn’t possibly be his reasoning. Is he trying to throw you off?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Have you thought about a sight like Blue Nile?  My fiance got my ring from there and it is GORGEOUS!  They are highly regarded and all the reviews I have ever read about them are positive.  Also, they are higher quality diamonds at cheaper prices because they do not have as much overhead.

My Fiance was nervous about picking the right ring as well so he asked me to go on the website and email him the settings I really liked.  He asked for at least 3 so I wouldn’t know exactly which one he picked.  I also had no idea of the size or quality diamond he chose.  That way, I got a ring I loved but he still had enough say to chose a ring he loved, could afford, and could still surprise me with ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Maybe he has already bought it and is throwing you off. Maybe he picked the one you love and you’ll be extra surprised when you see it. Just a thought!

Post # 8
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2892 posts
Sugar bee

@jackndiane: I’m surprised you didn’t respond with a “What do you mean you didn’t know what to pick, we picked out settings together?!” I’m cool with being sneaky for the sake a surprise but don’t be, for a lack of a better word, dumb about it. ๐Ÿ™‚ Did he tell you he hadn’t bought anything out of the blue? Cause I think the lead in to that conversation plus the craziness he said would really point to whether or not he bought something but is trying to throw you off. ๐Ÿ™‚

I hope I;m not sounding too harsh. I’m a little drunk. Went out tonight and got the, “So anything new in your relationship” question from some friends. I’m feeling particularly hostile. ๐Ÿ™‚ Either way. I admire your restraint when it came to not tieing him to a chair and interrogating him the moment he said something that didn’t make a ton of sense. I totally would have. In a heart beat. ๐Ÿ™‚ I have my fingers crossed for you.

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