- 5 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
hi bees! so my SI and i picked out my ring together and since we ordered online, we got a wax mold od the setting to be sure i loved it. i did. he ordered it and told me that was the end of my involvement so it would be a surprise still.
i was a very good bee and asked ZERO questions about shipping and delivery. it actually felt so good to not be so consumed by it. i mean, lets be serious- shiny stuff makes us go a little crazy aahshaha
but he friggen told me “get excited-it looks more amazing than i could have ever imagined!” and this was om Friday! i went insane all day at work and ive been out of my mind since! I just Didnt want to know anything because it makes me crawl out of my skin with excitement. I haven’t asked about it and im doing my best to act non-chelant but I can’t contain it!
any tips on how to relax?! he always used to say he didnt kniw how people waited once they had the ring!!! i dont care about an elaborate proposal, i just want so badly for it to be real! i also work at a hospital as a nurse and work 2nd shift so we dont see one another tues-fri even though we live together…meaning it wont happen on a weekday. i dont want to snoop (ive waited my whole life for the moment i see him present my ring and could never ruin that for myself) and i dont want to rush the moment but i do want to get it out of my head!
how can i stop fixating?!?!?! he is enjoying every second of this torture because im so type a and a planner and this it out of my hands. He keeps smiling and kissing me and making jokes like “look who is practicing being a wife” when I was folding the towels. i hope nobody misunderstands this post as me hounding or trying to control my proposal- im actually just hoping some bees can share what helped them be patient once they knew it was coming soon!
i also want to apologize for the awful caps and any typos- my Nook HD isn’t a very good tablet to use this site on! Thanks bees!