Post # 1
- Wedding: March 2018 - TBD
He wants to have Bachlors party and I really dont want a Bachlorettes party. Hes going to go see Ka in vegas for his.. I have few female friends, The ones I do have Im not close to and we dont party. Anyone else been in this situation?
Post # 3
If he wants to do it you should let him and not give him any grief about it. Just because you dont like to party doesnt mean he should not be able to go with his friends. Maybe if youre not partiers you can do a spa day or something, bachelor/bachelorettes dont have to be party night drunk fests you can do whatever you want, its just a chance to spend time with your girls. Let him do his thing and you and your girls can do something a lil more tame. As long as he doesnt disrespect you by doing something terribly wrong for his bachelor party I would let it go.
Post # 4
Just let him have oen. You don’t need to have one if you don’t want to, but if he wants it, you should just let him have his fun!
Post # 5
Be thankful he just wants to go see a Cirque show and not go to Little Darlings for a vagina in his face.
And just have fun with your girls, even if you just stay in and paint each other’s nails!
Post # 6
I don’t see the correlation here… him having a bachelor party has nothing to do with you having one. One can happen without the other. You don’t have to have a bachlorette if you don’t want one, but he does, so therefore you tell him, “have fun, be good, love you” and go on with your day.
Post # 7
let him have one. Its not a requirement that if he has one you have to or if you don’t that he can’t. If there are no issues with what he’s planning on doing, which it doesnt seem like there is, than I would say let this one go and plan something low key that suits you and your friends. Plus if he really does want one and you make a big deal and he ends up not having one there may be some kind of resentment or bitterness over it and thats not a good way to start your marriage.