(Closed) penis

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
9519 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I understand moving is a big sacrifice but he is not under an obligation to buy you a ring before another big purchase. Your priorities are different, you both should get on the same page in terms of expectations. Hurt expectations lead to resentment, resentment can poison a healthy relationship.  Maybe a discussion on a realistic timeline can help both of you.


And yes, mine purchased many bug items before the ring. The engagement was after I moved cross country a couple times in the relationship. The ring came when we were both ready

Post # 3
2392 posts
Buzzing bee

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and I’m just sitting there trying to be the cool gf being chill and enthusiastic abt getting a jet ski

OMG no, I couldn’t read past this part.

 Stop, stop, stop. You’re creating your own misery here. He’s doing this because you’re allowing it. 

This is an old story/ thread that keeps recycling here on the boards: “He says he’s going to buy me a ring but then instead gets a car/motorcycle/video game/whatever.” ]

The pinball machine is a new one though.

SPEAK UP and put actions to your words. Don’t be a wuss.

Post # 4
4230 posts
Honey bee

Girl, chill the fuck out. Geez.


Post # 5
293 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Okay, so he’s not allowed to buy himself anything until you get a ring? You should’ve specified that before you moved…

Post # 6
9120 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

Penis! Ahahaha. 

Post # 7
2254 posts
Buzzing bee


Post # 8
2758 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

WUT? Instead of closing or deleting the thread it’s now all penile?

Post # 9
521 posts
Busy bee

What did I miss? Penis thread? this is strange.

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