(Closed) he wants to fulfill his fantasy, but what about mine?

posted 11 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
Member
1268 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Waiting is hard, trust me I know- it’s miserable at times.  There were times that I knew I was being ridiculous but I couldn’t help how I felt.  I’m saying this on the other side now but I did wait- for long over a year.  In the long run you will probably feel happy that he put time and effort into the timing of the proposal.  

You know it will happen- that’s half the battle, and look forward to the future as opposed to making yourself miserable about the present.  I know you probably want to hear something along the lines of “You are right girl, you shouldn’t have to wait!” but the thing is that marriage and your relationship is all about compromise, and this is the first of many.  

So I understand that it sucks, but it’s not just your proposal, it’s his as well.  I wish you all the luck in your waiting endeavors.  

Post # 18
Member
6 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Not to be harsh but this isn’t all about you.  More than likely you’ll get to choose most of the wedding details.  The proposal is the thing the guy gets to do – to make it special for you.  Let him.  It might be better than your fantasy.

Don’t get me wrong, I sympathize that waiting is hard but if you trust him and believe him, you have nothing to worry about. 

Post # 19
Member
818 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Girl,

Sit back, relax, and let the man make you His wife. You never know how much love, time, and consideration is going into his proposing to you. This is also a “major” step in his life… 

In all honesty it is “HIS” choice to propose to you, whenever, and however his wishes to. Let him be happy to make you his wife… not just something he does to shut you up. (Let him express his love to you)

This is his time to shine- you don’t want to take this from him. He may have dreamed of how he is was going to ask a lady to take his hand in marriage.Just take a deep breath and wait… it’s coming. And girl the next 6 months is right around the corner. Spend the rest of your time and energy enjoying (early) planning for your wedding. Who know’s you may soon be off the “waiting” list! 🙂

It’s coming…. Let Him show you how much he cares,

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