(Closed) He wants to get married in a few months, but shows no sign of proposing soon

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

i would suggest starting to get some ideas together of what you want now since your talking less than a year at this point. start parusing venues and thinking of color themes and whatnot i have specific folders on my computer full of wedding stuff even though im not technically engaged yet(SO told me he was thinking fall of 2012) so im like you for time restraints. i would start getting ideas together and figure out what you want so when he does propose you can be like “here this is what i have found what do you think” it will save you frantic searching later and if there are diy stuff you want to get done you can start now and store it in a box or something.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@aprose: Totally agree with you on this.  

That may be his subtle way of giving you a hint that he is about to propose (guys aren’t very good with that hehe).  But, the looking and semi-planning can be fun!  I don’t want a long engagement, so I have been shooting some emails to potential vendors just to get an idea on pricing.  Nothing wrong with doing that!  

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@Hbomb84: not at all as long as you dont put down deposits and all fo that before consulting with your SO then your fine. getting a feel for the market is perfectly acceptable in my opinion and will help you be more oraganized and realistic when its time to finalize plans

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@aprose: Exactly.  My SO would think that I was caaarrrraazy if I already had the whole wedding planned! 

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