Post # 17
Crossfit is TOTALLY a cult. LOL.
Would you be willing to join him? Maybe see what it’s all about. Then you could get a gage on the girls in the class (and I guess guys!). Who knows, you may be sucked in as well.
Post # 18
It seriously is like a cult/family/team…they all get crazy together about working out, classes, etc. Would you consider going, too?
Post # 20
It’s happened before and I didn’t really care because he was so honest about it (: I think it’s kind of flattering anyways haha. Iif they started hanging out I’d be annoyed, but my Fiance is the kind of guy that distances himself from that behaviour.
Post # 21
I’d go to a class just to see the girl. For all you know, he asked for her number because she could dead lift him and he needed some training tips from her. If she had veins bulging out of her forearms, thighs the size of your waist, and ran around grunting, would you still be mad at him?
Post # 22
I don’t think the OP is worked up about it. She said it wasn’t a big deal and thinks its funny.
Post # 23
Yes! I’ve heard of this “family” aka CULT! hehe
Post # 24
lol…. yes, and if it’s a bunch of cute guys, and since it’s “crossfit” i’m sure he’ll let it slide 🙂 I’m too scared to do crossfit! Intimidated!
Post # 25
Thanks for your input! We’ve been together for over 4 years. If I did the same, it would be fine. We have strong trust in our relationship, and it’s not that he doesn’t care about me or love me, he knows that I wouldn’t do anything and he wouldn’t do anything to hurt our relationship. The fact that he was open and told me is a sign that he has no bad intentions. I know and understand everyone’s relationship is different. If this happened to me when I was with my first Boyfriend or Best Friend, I would be so livid, only because it was a different relationship and a different time and a different me.
Post # 26
LOL…. he said she was a runner and out did everyone in the class and even lapped him a few times
Post # 27
I think I’d struggle with it but them I’m a really insecure person. I’d have to work hard to bite my tongue (I would NEVER tell him who he can or can’t be friends with)
Post # 28
I’m glad you agree with me! It’s something to laugh about. My husband and I have been together for years and we’ve been through some TOUGH SHIT none of which was our fault (read my posts if you’re curious what, especially the “confession” post) and I would never think he didn’t love me because he got some phone numbers.
Like, seriously, if Danny came home from the gym with a dude’s number, I would be DYING LAUGHING.
But yeah, every relationship is different. Just because I’d LOL at it doesn’t mean others wouldn’t be hurt or offended.