(Closed) *Head Explosion*

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

breathe!

It sounds to me like you know logically that you’re over-thinking stuff, but because you’re so emotionally close to it all, and spending so so so much time on every decision, that it’s hard to let it go. Right?

Maybe taking a little break from the wedding planning would be beneficial to your emotional well being. A romantic date with your Fiance, a girls’ day at your favorite spa, even just an evening of drinks – with NO wedding talk allowed! Ideally no wedding thoughts allowed. Time to focus on YOU instead of IT. 🙂

I haven’t been there yet (too far out still), but know that when I get too wrapped up in other projects, space and breaks often help me keep my perspective.

Post # 5
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4001 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Hahaha, don’t resort to alcohol!  Well, don’t abuse alcohol and the coping it provides.  I think its an emotional time and that’s playing into your decisions and making you obsess over things you never imagined you’d care that much about.  I am confident you’ll love the way things turn out. 

I hope you’re able to find peace again before the wedding!  Ooooh, maybe you can find a weekend to do a spa trip!  I feel like that’s always a stress reliever.  Not only because a massage or facial is great, but because you can be alone with your thoughts (I do some of my best stuff when I’m all alone in a sauna). 

 

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