Post # 1
Tell me I’m not the only bride who is going to be sitting with our guests. We are having banquet tables and we are going to be sitting at a table with our parents and close friends.
Has anyone else actually sat with their guests?
Post # 3
We had round tables and we sat at a table in the middle of the floor with our parents.
Post # 4
ive been to quite a few weddings where the bridal party are sitting with the guests – i like the idea
Post # 5
I would HATE a sweetheart table!! I love my fiance and everything, but i have dinner with him every night. I want to sit at a round table with my nearest and dearest and have the best time ever with them!!! I don’t love the idea of a head table, so we’re just sitting at the table in the middle of the room (we’ll likely have 9 tables so we’ll be in the middle, and the 8 other tables will be around us.
Speeches and whatever will happen at the front of the room, maybe with a lecturn or something?
Post # 6
I want a sweetheart table. I want everyone to be able to sit with their guests, so I don’t want a bridal party head table. And since I’ll just be eating dinner there, and then likely dancing/mingling/etc, I like the idea of having dinner with Fiance only.
Post # 7
we sat with our parents, moh and her date and bm and his date at a normal table, just in the center of the room/right in front of the dance floor. bridesmaids sat with their dates at another, and groomsmen at another. i’ve never actually seen a head table at a wedding–just this way and sweetheart tables. it was really nice to have a few quiet minutes with the people at our table during dinner.
Post # 8
We are sitting at a round banquet table with both sets of parents, FI’s brother (best man) and SIL. I absolutely HATE head tables and I’m not really a fan of sweetheart tables so the obvious choice was to sit with the people who are most important to us. Our bridal party will be sitting at a round banquet table right next to ours (with their SO’s).
Post # 9
We will have both. Our sweetheart table will be at the end of the two head tables. The sweetheart table will be on a platform.
Post # 10
We haven’t decided what we are going to do yet. We are having a very small wedding; less than 50 guests, including us and the bridal party. My gown is huge and we are having long tables, so we just don’t know. I am thinking we might just do a sweetheart table because my gown is so big and may need a table of its own.
Post # 11
We are having a sweatheart table but we will be near others because our table will be in the center of two other guest tables one family and one bridesmaids and dates.
Post # 12
The only bridal party we have is the Bridesmaid or Best Man and Maid/Matron of Honor so since their both attending solo we’re going to sit at the table with them. Everyone else will be at tables surrounding us. We have too many immediate family members to be able to sit at the table with all of them.
Post # 13
We are sitting at the table with our kids and parents….but I am pretty sure our kids will probably end up ditching us to sit elsewhere…LOL
Post # 14
We are putting our tables into a U formation and we plan on being in the middle of the U.
Post # 15
@Cheeks11: oooh, maybe there will be a love connection between your Maid/Matron of Honor and BM!
Post # 16
I voted “sitting with our guests” because we are sitting with the bridal party and their dates at a long square table, but we will be sitting all the way around it, not just on one side like the traditional head table. We don’t want the two people who would be sitting at the ends of the head table to feel isolated, especially since neither of them will have dates 🙁