(Closed) Headaches w/ Bridesmaids… :T

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think your fiance is way out of line to right snarky comments on her facebook like “you better save your money and stop buying so many clothes.  You have a bridesmaid dress to buy!”

Regardless of any history I would be totally turned off by that, if I were your bridesmaid.

Post # 4
3866 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@bells: agreed.

However, I have to say, you’re better off without someone wanting to sponge off you all the freaking time.  

She sounds toxic and, to be honest, *I* would be put off by HER behavior!!!  

Sorry you’re dealing with this.  Don’t beat yourself up over someone who has used you and your wallet.  It really isn’t worth it!

Post # 5
2539 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

@ChickFromDC: First of all…i dont know what it is about us march 2012…..but some of us are having the WORST luck with BM! i have 10 ((yes 10)) and one of them is completly driving me nut (FSIL). so i hope your situation gets better.

secondly, this girl sounds….NUTS and JEALOUS! so why would you want a friend like her? it seems like you guys are always in competition  with each other and trying to one up each other. she def souds like a toxic friend and someone that could possibly turn YOUR day into some thing about her.

however i do agree with PP that your Fiance was way out of lineby posting the comments on her FB page. i understand where he was coming from but he should have kept the comments to herself. at any rate…be thankful that she kicked herself out instead of you having to do which i think would have ended up happening anyway.

sorry your going through all of this….it def sucks but it looks like it could turn out to be a postive thing in the long run!


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