(Closed) *headdesk* Excited but … just… GAAAAH! (semi-vent)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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286 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

First: YAY! Exciting! And second: yes, I asked him for a timeline last week and said “like by December?” and he said sure. Then Saturday night he brought up marriage and was asking me when I thought we should get married and I said guess I said something about “if we got engaged in December…” and he said you said December, not me. I took that to mean he didn’t really want to propose that soon and started back pedaling before he said “I wasn’t planning on waiting all the way til December” Ohh. 

Post # 4
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1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I was a bitch about giving a timeline. June 13th of this year makes three years and we have been living together for almost 2.5 years. His parents didn’t know we live together (they live on the other side of the country). We kept talking about marriage and kids- it was always, when we get married or we’ll buy a house here, for at least a year. I finally told him that there would be a U-haul truck outside on June 13th and that if he didn’t propose, I was moving out. Not breaking up with him, just moving out. I was tired of “living in sin” and really believed that by three years together, he should know whether he wanted to marry me or not. 

Post # 5
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2224 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@LadyInGreen:  I’m sorry but I just had to laugh when you wrote “I just screwed myself out of a Pre-Christmas engagement!” at least you know that the engagement is imminent and will happen soon!!

 

Post # 7
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1166 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@LadyInGreen:  Well, at least if nothing else, you have a good timeline! Still frustrating though! I hope he’s just messing with you and he proposes well before then! Exciting!

Post # 8
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76 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

I had the opposite! Fiance said “sometime before June 2012” and I ended up getting a Christmas 2011 proposal!! Sneaky!

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