Health insurance or saving/paying off debt?

posted 1 year ago in Wellness
Post # 76
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2005 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

daysgoneby :  I thought the issue was that he’d be ineligible for the subsidies, once he’s married with the household income.  But I haven’t bothered to read back 😉  

Freaking health insurance!!!!  What a disaster the system is!

Post # 77
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26 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2017

Same person

 

 

Post # 78
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1117 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

anonomee :  Um, ok. I guess we’re supposed to know how much that cost, but even so if it was expensive saving up for a one time expense is not the same as a monthly recurring expense. And if they didn’t know what their insurance was going to do then they couldn’t have opted to forgo the ring at the time. 

Post # 79
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6107 posts
Bee Keeper

impatient1 :  I dont think anonomee is trying to say she should not have bought a ring…she is saying that the OP of this and mingogo4 who is dating/engaged to a very abusive person ARE in fact the same posters. Using that they have the same ring as evidence of such. 

Post # 80
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26 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2017

impatient1 :  No, the poster has two different accounts. See the username.

Post # 81
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1117 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Ah ok. Sorry I took it wrong. 

Post # 82
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1048 posts
Bumble bee

He needs HER health insurance and for her to pay it because in her other “alias” she wrote the thread about her Fiance walking off the job he hated. Also, about threatening their cat, and being threatening to her.  And they have “noisy” sex so loud that the cats are terrorized and “scratch him all the time” and the neighbors are POed by their noise levels. She said herself that he has a habit that he’s “working on” of breaking, punching and throwing things when he was angry, and counseling was started while in his parent’s house because of this issue.  

So yes, OP, I highly suggest you cover BOTH of you for as much health insurance as you can possibly get.

Because one of the two of you are going to need it in your toxic relationship.

The next time he puts his hand through a wall because someone pissed him off, it’ll cost you $40,000 when he fractures something.  And you’ve acknowledged yourself that he NEEDS therapy for his mental health issues. This shouldn’t even be a question. No matter what the financial costs or the inconvenience, is a mandatory service in your situation. It is one of the many, many costs of choosing to be with this man.

Post # 83
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10465 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

notmeeither :  

It’s not all bad news.  Once he’s hauled away to jail, the taxpayers will cover his medical expenses.

Post # 84
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2490 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

sassy411 :  correct. Either for hitting OP or animal cruelty. 

OP get insurance for the cats too. They might need it. 

Post # 85
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9673 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

I just want to know why if you were going to make a second account you used the same name?

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