Post # 31
My father sent him a text last week basically saying that he’s never thought of my ex as a man. I didn’t know my dad did that until after the fact. OF course my dad hated to see me in hysterics when I found that card and my family feels betrayed too.
my question is, Will the fact that my ex knows my family doesn’t think highly of him anymore deter him from ever reaching out to me in the future? I know I should not want to ever hear from him again but the thought of not talking to him or of him hating me is killing me.
I know I’m pathetic 😒 MY mom is so tired of me being depressed but it’s only been a month and a half.
Post # 32
It’s time you get MAD at him. You’re still holding onto hope that he will reach out to you. Don’t. Block his number. Delete his number. Block him on social media. That sounds harsh but it sounds like you are someone who needs to cut ties COMPLETELY. Ask that your family blocks him too. No contact for 60 days. Don’t worry about what he thinks of you and your family because he’s your history; he is your past. Stop looking in the past and start looking forward. You have your entire life in front of you. Looking back will only prevent you from being able to move forward.
Post # 33
redrose21791 : hi Bee, I am getting through break up as well, eventhough it was the mutual break up, it stills pain deeply. Hugs you for it.
It is normal you feel sad, angry, guitly, jealous, absolutely normal, cry if you want to cry, be sad if you feel like you do, try to avoid seeing all the pictures again, because your brain are working hard enough, let it break. When I am so sad and when those bad memories flash back I just cry my eyes out and go to wash my face and breath in. It will get better day by day trust me. And being treated badly by that asshole one will help you move on even faster. Nothing is as wasted of time, we growth up and it is pain sometime, but you will see the bigger picture and choose the better one after all.
In my point of view, I’m jealous of you because you are the young smart women who has a great career, be proud, be pretty, we have plenty of fishes out there. It means you are One step closer to the one who respect you!
Post # 34
redrose21791 : and yes. The feeling of getting back together will happen few time. But do not let it fool you. It won’t happen and do not let it happen. That person is not worth it for you to even try to be nice or polite. Your dad did a right thing.
Completely no contact, I mean forever just disappear out of the picture and start to move on to new better chapter of your life girl!