(Closed) Heartbroken about changed wedding date…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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774 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Did you already send out the invitations? Im sure people will understand. Its better to play it safe, cause who knows what could happen. I really wanted to have mine in the summer, but with my FI’s and my work it wasnt possible, so were having a sept wedding too!! Dont worry about the date, just think about how much fun you’ll have!

Post # 4
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7173 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I’m so sorry.  That is sooo hard.  We had a June wedding date and had to change it to October (for other reasons).  It was really really hard for me to let it go (the June date) -but, eventually I did.  Actually, on the supposed to be wedding day I actually forgot until later (all day I had that ‘what am I supposed to be doing today’ type feeling – and it wasn’t until later that evening it dawned on me).   

I hope that in time you’ll be able to embrace your new date.  I just wanted to tell you I understand and it IS possible!  HUGS – I know it’s not ideal – but I think what you guys decided is so wise considering his job situation.

Post # 5
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46664 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

It’s healthy to mourn the change and the loss of your vision of yourself as a June bride. I’m sure you will be able to move on given some time.

Post # 6
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5667 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m so sorry. 🙁 Maybe jumping into the September boards will help you feel a bit better about the date change.

Post # 8
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630 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I always thought I would be an August bride, but that was two months away from when we got engaged, so it became November…the latest possible date we could do it (DH is Navy).

Post # 9
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3671 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

We had originally planned a bigger January wedding and due to finances pretty much had to cancel and have a smaller March wedding.  It turned out lovely, although I would be lying if I didn’t say I imagined how our original January wedding would have turned out.  

It was super hard when the original wedding date came along so my husband and I made sure to fill the day with wedding plans and time together.  After our March date came though, it didn’t seem to matter as much anymore and getting to the new wedding date definitely helps a lot. 

Post # 11
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5269 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2016

I had to this past Aug bc my job loss and we were supposed to be married this MarchFrown I have always dreamed about spring and now I have a Dec. wedding…. I am totally doing spring colors though now!! I dont care!! I am sad but still have my garden venue and colors and now my dream dress!! The only thing I dont have is the month but hey… its ok now!! THe date doesnt matter to me now! Just today I decided this after trying to switch the date but venue said I cant… so I am going with the flow!

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