(Closed) heartbroken and trying to look up (longish, ventish)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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101 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Holy Crap, trust me people have it bad just like you. But somewhere it will go back up hill instead of going straight down. My gosh we share similar stuff. I just had a miscarrage in March and have not been able to get pregnant. I am so pissy with everyone cause literally EVERYONE IS GETTING PREGNANT OR having a baby. It just makes me feel selfish that i too only think about my self. Its not that true but when it comes to this i feel like garbage. You should meditate breath in through the nose and expand lungs. Cause seriously stress i have stressful issues every single day.

Post # 4
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1927 posts
Buzzing bee

Wow… that’s a lot to face in such a short period of time.  I’m sorry you’re going through so much!!  I can’t address them all but I have some suggestions on a couple of issues.

1.  Your FIL’s can not just refuse to give you money they owe you.. that’s not an option.  Offer to put them on a payment plan to get it back to you.  Keep an eye on their spending.  If they are buying ANYTHING other than necessities instead of paying you back call them out on it, and threaten small claims court.  You’re not a bank and you clearly have financial hardship of your own.

2.  I promise you even if your mom’s sight is very limited she will still feel the love and importance of the day and that’s what matters!  I know it would be hard to afford a videographer but do you have a friend that could video tape the big parts of the day for you (the vows, the first dance, the cutting of the cake, etc)? That way when your mom regains her vision she’ll have a chance to see how beautiful the day was.

Post # 5
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2681 posts
Sugar bee

Wow you have gone through so much.  You could inspire alot of people, its totally ok to vent but you dont seem to let it get the best of you.  I agree with Moose that if you can afford it, or even ask a friend to videotape the wedding and key moments that would be awesome for your mom if she doesnt have full sight the day of your wedding.

Also, get your money back for your inlaws.  They cant NOT pay you and I dont care if youve been in fights before about it, your Fiance needs to realize that they need to pay you back and take necessary steps to make sure that happens.

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