Heartbroken over a lost friendship (REALLY long, vent)

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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915 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

anonone123 :  I feel bad for you for having such a crazy erratic friend. I understand what you’re going through, but in all honesty, I think u need to let her go. She’s got so many issues that you can’t help her with and it doesn’t seem like she knows what loyalty is at all (look how many times she’s cheated). If she’s going to treat her husband like that, the person she agreed to be faithful to for life, what makes you think she knows how to treat friends right? She is not worth it. You should be enjoying this time of planning your wedding, not stressing about a so-called “friend.” 

Post # 3
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9869 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

She sounds like a shitty friend. From you post, I can’t tell why you are still friends with her.

Post # 4
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127 posts
Blushing bee

Nah, she seems toxic and should probably be cut out of your life. You and your Fiance don’t deserve to be treated that way. 

Post # 5
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445 posts
Helper bee

I would not be her friend anymore if I were you. She sounds very troubled and toxic and takes it out on you. You don’t deserve to be emotionally abused by a friend.

Post # 6
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165 posts
Blushing bee

anonone123 :  She sounds extremely toxic and unstable. I recommend that you distant yourself from her and not invite her to the wedding. She will not bring joy to your special day just like how she’s not bringing you joy in life. Stay strong dear, you are not being a bad person, she’s a horrible friend! 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee

She isn’t a friend. Block her and move on!

Post # 8
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115 posts
Blushing bee

You should cut her loose! She is no friend to you and you don’t need to be talked to and treated that way the rest of your life. 

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

She must have filled some need of yours for you to call her a friend. Hopefully you are ready to move on and find someone who knows what a friend is and does. It’s not her.

Post # 10
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701 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

anonone123 :  She is a toxic person, toxic friend. 

Sne would have just exploded again and again for the rest of your your friendship.

It might be time to call it quits 

Post # 11
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5575 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2017

I agree with pp, she’s completely unstable.

It’s tough to come to terms with, but keep reminding yourself that she is not the same person you met in the bathroom. It’s never easy to let a good friend go, but she is causing you way more pain than happiness

I wouldn’t reach out to her again

Post # 12
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540 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

She sounds extremely toxic. Move on and find true friends!!

Post # 14
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555 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2017

She sounds like a friend I used to have. Really fast friends and very close. But she was clingy and if I didn’t do what she wanted she was horrible. She also made horrible life decisions. I cut my losses and never looked back. 

Post # 15
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2699 posts
Sugar bee

D r a m a. I know you love her but who needs that?? Tell her to go fix her life and carry her black ass cloud with her. Really, it’s just too much to deal with. You’re trying to be a friend and support her throughout all her messiness and you get beaten down and berated at every turn. You’ll never win here. Cut your losses and run. 

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