(Closed) Heavy heart. crazy sister drops out of wedding- she was MOH-Long(sorry!)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

Everyone insisted I ask my cousin to be a bm, I was dreading it because she’s very dramatic and can always turn the attention to her, but I asked anyway. Long story short she dropped out very soon after accepting. Best thing that ever happened! My best friend filled her spot, so I was able to have the bridal party I always wanted and shes been awesome with everything. My cousin won’t be coming to the wedding, is it kinda sad? Yes. But seriously if she can’t be happy for someone else for once then good riddance

Post # 5
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Worker bee

@cewalte:  It may be her mental condition causing her to act this way, But that does not excuse the behavior. Unless she is totally 100% delusional all the time, she knows. The question is, what is she going to do about it? Like an addict, she will probably do nothing until forced to, that is until she hits rock bottom. So try to think that cutting contact will help that happen sooner. It’s hard, I know, but better now, than when you are in your 50’s and she’s so unhinged she’s violent and you are afraid of her. (Experience speaking.)

The grieving process is not only for deaths, but deaths of relationships, too. So read a book or two to help you process the feelings you are experiencing.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

i think people are responcible for their actions…shes a bitch and good on you. 

Post # 7
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Busy bee

@cewalte:  wow, I didn’t know that was a real disorder? 

It’s you and your FI’s wedding, you get to block drama queens to you wedding 🙂 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

I would be the bigger person. accept that she does not want to be moh (greast for you!) but still send her an invite. she can then decide what she’s wants to do with it.

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