(Closed) Hedgie Baby Update.

posted 9 years ago in Babies
Post # 17
2699 posts
Sugar bee

This breaks my heart. I am so sorry and I will be praying for your D&C. I am sorry hun and I am glad that you have the support of your DH.

Post # 18
5667 posts
Bee Keeper


Post # 19
13 posts
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am so sorry for you and Mr. Hedgehog’s loss.

Post # 20
1756 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

One of my recently pregnant friends and I had an interesting discussion. In a nutshell, she didn’t feel terribly attached to her baby for the first 4 or 5 months of her pregnancy. She realized it was completely and totally a self-protective strategy, but knowing that so many pregnancies don’t result in a child being born basically meant that she did not allow herself to get attached until a certain point.

You are supposed to feel however you are feeling. Don’t get angry at yourself for not feeling the “correct” emotion.

Post # 21
6244 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900


Post # 22
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

hugs to the hedgies

Post # 23
7338 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Awww I am sooo sorry you are going through this! Sending you bugs hugs to you and hubby! Stay strong and you will get through this.

Post # 24
861 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m so sorry for you and your family.  I would like to say what you’re feeling is normal.  Please don’t be mad at yourself – right now you’re in survival mode – you have to do what you have to do.  Later, if you feel the need to, take time for yourself or both you and your husband to grieve.  I’ve been praying for you.

Post # 25
5147 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011


Post # 26
2140 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m so sorry, you feel whatever you are feeling. There’s no right or wrong.

And you’re absolutely right, this is just another hardship in the long life you and your husband will have together. It will only make you two stronger.


Post # 27
2023 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m so sorry 🙁 As cliche as it sounds, everything really does happen for a reason – even if we don’t know what that reason is now. I wish you and your husband the best and hope that in the future you will have much less hardships.

Post # 28
2560 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am so sorry Cry

Post # 29
1351 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I am so sad for you guys.There is nothing wrong with how you’re feeling. Even if you get to a point of not feeling, it’s okay. Sending lots of hugs and prayers your way.

Post # 30
120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

So sorry to hear this sweetie.   There is no right or wrong way to feel in a situation like this… you do what YOU have to do to feel better.  Sending you lots of ((((HUGS)))).

Post # 31
1986 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Don’t be mad at yourself! 


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