(Closed) Hedgie Baby Update.

posted 9 years ago in Babies
Post # 47
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2194 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

How you feel is how you feel, and there’s nothing wrong with that.

I’m so sorry this happened, but maybe everything happens for a reason. Best of luck to you and your husband.

Post # 48
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1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Hey, Don’t worry about not feeling sad. Different people deal with things differently. Especially with how fast it all happened. The whole situation sucks in general. But really the only thing you can do is just keep on moving forward.

*E-HUG* lol. Just keep your chin up. Grieve how ever you need to and just remember you are not alone. From the sounds of it you have an amazing Husband and he will be by your side through thick and thin. I know that I couldn’t have made it through this week with out the support from my Fiance.

 

Post # 49
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7774 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I’m so very sorry for your loss. 🙁

Don’t beat yourself up for not feeling sad. It took me a good month and a half before I felt at all attached to my pregnancy. I am almost 16 weeks and I have just now begun to be excited. When my doctor did my first ultrasound, I had absolutely no reaction. It was a deadpan “Huh, well… that’s kinda neat…”. I think a lot of it was shock because the pregnancy was unplanned. I was mad at myself for not feeling happy or excited about my pregnancy either and it made me feel like something was wrong with me. I did a lot of looking around the internet to see if other women were feeling the same way I was and there a lot of women who had this reaction. It’s not just you. Please don’t feel like there is something wrong with you because of it.

Post # 50
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4038 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’m so so sorry honey. We’ll be thinking about you this week. 

Post # 51
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2432 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

@Mrs Hedgehog: I’m so sorry. I hope you and your husband have a great support system who will help you through this loss. I think feeling numb right now to something so intense that happened so quickly is completely normal.

Post # 52
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1040 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

🙁 Sorry Hedgie. I don’t think it’s a bad thing not to be sad. Sending strength and love your way.

Post # 53
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9478 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m so sorry to hear. 🙁 (hugs)

Post # 54
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2889 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I am so sorry! I was really praying for at least an outcome like mine if not greater. Cry 

Love and prayers going your way.

Post # 55
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1993 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine feeling nothing,  maybe it will hit you later.  [comment moderated]

Post # 56
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3148 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

@Mrs Hedgehog:   I don’t think you should feel bad about not feeling sad. like you said, this all happened so fast, before you could even process it. you need to take care of you right now, and don’t let yourself feel guilty for any reason.

Post # 57
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2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Hugs.  Let yourself feel how you feel and don’t beat yourself up for any of your feelings.  sending up prayers for you and your family.

Post # 59
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7774 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

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@jholler25: I think your post was a bit insensitive. Everyone reacts to things differently. No need to make her feel guilty for it.

Post # 60
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Best of luck for future family planning!

You have time to plan until you are ready for children now, and your little angels will be looking down on you.

Dont feel bad, there is nothing to feel bad for, how ever you deal with this is your best way to get through it. Your doing really well. *hugs*

Post # 61
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132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2009

I’m very sorry for your loss. As several other people have said – let yourself feel what you feel. It’s a process, and the sadness will probably come when you get past the shock.

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