(Closed) Heels or Flats?

posted 7 years ago in Accessories
Post # 2
2569 posts
Sugar bee

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msbam:  I think you have to decide what is more important here, comfort or hight? There are some comfortable shoes out there that will give you some hight you just have to shop around. I normally like open toe shoes and my rule is the higher the higher the platform the more comfort you will get. A lot of people think super high heela will kill there feet but if you have enough support it wont be so bad. My feet normally hurt with straps in the front because my feet get squished against the strap and it rubs or when the platform is smaller because it is really making my foot bend.

Post # 3
312 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I’m having this dilemma as well

i actually told my Fmil that I wanted to wear flats and she freaked out and said it was trashy and indicated mental problems 


Post # 4
620 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I wore flats.  Comfort was a priority for me and I feel the same way about heels you do.  That being said my hubbie is only 3-4″‘ taller than me so height wasn’t an issue.  In your case I would wear heels for the ceremony and formal pics – I do think wearing heels will look better in the pics.  Then change into flats for the rest of the night.

I spent less than $100 on my wedding shoes.  Unless your wearing a shorter dress you’re shoes aren’t something that most will notice. 

Post # 5
61 posts
Worker bee

You could always go with a lower heel or a platform heel, both of which are way more comfortable/easier to walk in. I wouldn’t worry too much about the height thing and just go for comfort.

Post # 6
1821 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

How about wedges? I’m wearing wedges for my wedding. 

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