Post # 1
Another thing Im worried about is having my bridesmaids wear heels or flats or whatever they want.U see I will be wearing flats because I cannnot do heels at all.My feet hurt after 10 minutes of being in them.
So since Im not wearing them,do I have my bridesmaids wear them too?Or what?Now one of my bridesmaids is over 6 feet and heavyset,so having them ALL wear heels is not a good idea (for her) at least.
I think that a couple girls would like heels,but I dont know.
Would u let them do whatever with the shoes,as long as its the same color,or just have them all wear flats?
Never thought show selection would be hard!
Post # 3
I would let them wear what they want within a color
Post # 4
i had my girls wear whatever black shoes they wanted… we got married outdoors at a ranch, and there was grass, dirt, rocks, etc. i wanted them to be comfortable in whatever they wore, and not have to buy something new, if they didn’t want to. two of my girls wore peep toe wedges, one wore peep toe flats, and another closed toe flats. they were all happy will the way they looked, and they were comfy, too.
Post # 5
Let them wear whatever shoes they want, perhaps just pick a color. Most important thing is that your girls are comfortable all day. That way they can socialize, dance, walk without tripping with no worries!
Post # 6
my girls are all wearing pewter colored shoes of their choice. whatever makes them comfortable!
Post # 7
I’m letting mine choose whatever they would like. I know some absolutely do not feel comfortable in heels and others would rather be in heels than flats. It’s not a big deal to me since their dresses are floor length and you really won’t be able to see the shoes. At first I told them I really didn’t even care what color they were as long as they didn’t clash with the dress. However, many of them urged me to just pick a color so I have.
Post # 8
I wore flats and all my BM’s chose to wear heels and it looked fine. I’m taller than all of them anyway so we ended up being pretty close in height.