Post # 1
I love heels. My husband is three inches taller than me on a good day. Depending on the shoes hes usually only like one or two inches taller. I obviously want to wear heels but I think it might look weird if he is shorter than I am. I don’t know if I should find new shoes or just suck it up. Opinions?
EDIT: I should have clarified we are having a vow renewal in July which is what I am referring to
Post # 3
I honesty don’t know why so many brides get their knickers in a knot over the height issue. Everyone, including you and the groom, knows what the height difference is between the two of you.
If he is wearing shoes, the heel is probably at least 1/2″. so you could wear shoes that have a 3.5 inch heel and still be the same height if it bothers you.
Post # 4
exact same height difference we have. I wore heels as I pleased, this was the result:
so as you can see, I’m taller in some pics, I don’t think anyone cared, noticed we certainly didn’t it was a non issue.
Post # 6
What did you wear on your wedding day? did you like the results? (as are you happy with your pictures, did you hear any comments about the height difference, did you feel insecure, etc.) i think that a good place to start. Hopefully this helped 🙂
Post # 7
I am the same height as my husband and I will rock the heels any time I want. I do it because I love wearing them, I look good in them, and shoes are awesome.
I feel if you are confident and comfortable with it, go for it. I am sure your family and friends will be ok if you are slightly taller than your husband at your vow renewal. Also, if you dont want to look taller than your husband for the pictures, maybe the photographer can pose you in a way the hide the height difference.
Post # 8
@vmec: that is a beautiful red dress you have on there!!
Thank you! i think I’m just going to suck it up. On my wedding day, I wore like flip flops 😡 we literally just signed papers and didn’t do anything more. The “wedding day” was because of his upcoming deployment we wanted to make sure our paperwork was in order