Post # 1
My sister is ordering her bridesmaid dress tomorrow.. They all tried them on we were happy when we left the store. Now she messages me saying that she wants to order the dress without the bow on it because she thinks it makes her look extremly young.. BUT if i want her to wear it she will. I LOVE the bow it was why i picked the dress! HELP ME PLEASE.. any opinions help!
Post # 3
She said if you would like her to wear it then she would. You’re the bride…you want her to wear the bow…so have her wear the bow!
I have worn many a dress that I did not personally like as a bridesmaid, but it was their day and I did it for them. Your sister should be the same way!
Post # 4
- Wedding: September 2011 - St Aloysius' College, Milson's Point
It sounds like you just need to explain that you really like the bow on the dress? I would suggest in a phone call rather than a text because then there is no room for misunderstandings.
Post # 5
I completely agree. She is the bridesmaid and said she would wear it with the bow for you and you should hold her to it. (how many BMs actually wear the dress again anyway?) If it were me I would ask her to wear it and explain that is why you picked the dress and its what you love. She loves you and will understand, she is after all your sister.
PS, if you dont have her wear the bow will you regret it when you look back on the pictures?