(Closed) Help!

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
5472 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I would think that your services are your gift (unless they are paying you like a vendor)… BUT- it would be nice of you to bring at least a card with a nice, heartfelt note inside.  Gifts should never be expected.  If you feel comfortable doing so, and are able after travel expenses, you can get a gift card to go with your wedding card.

Post # 4
1486 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

When I got married, I was very surprised that some of the people who traveled so far for our wedding gave gifts.  I did not expect them, however, I didn’t really expect them from anyone.

As a GUEST, I would still give a gift.  I might spend a bit less than I would for a local wedding, but I would give for sure.

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