- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
So I have selected 3 bridesmaids which are friends of mine from nursing school. I have 3 others who really want to be apart of my wedding. My dilemma is the other 3 are my sisters! My one sister lives in Alaska (which I live in Florida), my other sister lives 2 1/2 hours away and my other sister is actually my sister-in-law. I have been apart of all of their weddings and now they want to be apart of mine. My one sister really wants to be involved and is already planning my bridal shower, has been sending me ideas for the wedding, and is coming up in a few weeks to attend a bridal show with me. If I were to include her I would feel awful not to include the other two, especially since the one involved and I haven’t always had the best relationship like I have with the other 2. I can’t include all of them either, my fiance only has 3 groomsmen. My sister who is trying to be involved was hurt today after I hinted my friends were going to be my bridesmaids. My mother, now involved, feels my sister should be apart of my wedding and even my matron of honor, but that I should leave the other two out. I really want all of them invovled but feel if I don’t have the other two I shouldn’t have her as well. The worst part is there is major tension between the other 2 sisters and the 1 involved, which would make things worse if I included just her, but would tear my one sister apart if I didn’t include her. I really don’t know what to do!! I already asked the other 3 and really don’t want to take back my invitation to have them beside me.