Post # 1
We sent out our save the dates and my boss already said he won’t be able to come because he will be out of the country. He apparently goes to Israel every summer which I did not realize. He even tried to give the save the date back to me. Do I still send an invitation to him since he already said he can’t make it?
Post # 2
vgrimes93 : If he tried giving the send the date back that’s a clear indication his plans are set. I wouldnt bother sending the invite. If his plans change last minute and you guys have extra seats then you can tell him in person to come.
Post # 3
General etiquette is to still send an invite, but in your case where he tried to give the save the date back, I probably wouldn’t.