Post # 17
Just relax and have a good time. Remember all of our ancestors were able to do it with no special help or guides and animals also, otherwise we would not be here.
Be yourself and honest and speak up and communicate with each other so you know if there is any pain or better yet what feels especially good.
Post # 18
@fallflowers: any recommendations for two technical virgins who happen to be shy about everything, not just sex?
and thanks for the post, janie_leigh. I have a lot of the same questions, though we aren’t completely-completely abstinent. Glad I’m not the only one 🙂
Post # 19
of course! i seriously recommend just talking about it. we sat down and talked about our anxieties/fears/nervousness/shyness related to the wedding night. we talked about what he’ll need to do to make sure that i’m comfortable/not in pain. we talked for a while, and i seriously feel SO much more comfortable. i think talking about it with him will help to break the shyness barrier and make your first time more comfortable. of course, i still haven’t done it, so it could be completely awkward, but i just have a feeling it’s going to be magical (though maybe a little uncomfortable!). he’s prepared to be gentle and attentive, and we’re jusy so READY! 🙂