(Closed) Help / advice – Is this normal or am I going crazy??!!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Oh, sweety, i am so sorry you’re feeling this way :-(..I guess it’s normal, from my zero experience, that is. I have had terrible moments of stress a couple  of weeks ago and i lashed out at my sister and mum (they weren’t at their best either), which left me devastaded..then, incredibly, i calmed down once i realized i had everything under control. Do you? Do you have everything under control? If so, just, please RELAX! Take a loooooong bubble bath, go out and have a nice strong tea with a friend and if the weather permits, sit under a tree and fell the wind in your hair (sorry, these are the things that DO calm me!!)

Guess what, Fiance is leaving for Polland a week before the wedding and i can’t believe how calm i still feel! Completely weird!!!

Hugs, bee, you are not alone walking the last few days before your wedding. It’s gonna be just fine Smile

Post # 4
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2815 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I was the same way the week leading up to my wedding.  I honestly think the stress just gets the best of you.  Try to remember that this is temporary and just try to relax.  If you are still having trouble after the wedding, I’d recommend going to talk to your doctor.  Big hugs!

Post # 5
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221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I would say its totally normal.  Weddings are STRESSFUL.  Even good stress is stress.  I have been married before and I was completely stressed the week before and the day of was stressful until I getting ready to walk down the aisle.  Then I just had to let the little things go and I enjoyed the rest of the day with my friends and family.   

Post # 7
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102 posts
Blushing bee

It sounds like stress. With such a big event coming up you’re probably feeling like there’s a million things that need to be done or could be done. Just remember the situation is under control and take a breath. I know many of the bee’s have taken spa days to themselves in the days leading up to the wedding and have highly recommended taking a little bit of time for yourself. Go get a massage if you have some spare time and relax! Good luck!

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