(Closed) HELP!?! Advice pls!

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

No advice but I hope the talk went well.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m confused, are you having issues with one person or multiple people?

For the officiant, could you have a JOP on call as backup?  Many states do require a 30 or 60 day notice before the wedding, so if you’re only 25 days out you could always just tell him “Dude, you didn’t get it in time so we’re having Bob the JOP.  We’re going to have you read this instead.”

Regarding the girlfriend you didn’t invite (of a groomsman?), she should have been invited.  If they consider themselves in a relationship and call each other boyfriend and girlfriend, then it is serious enough that the SO needs to be invited, regardless of how many or how few times you met her.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

There seem to be 2 girlfriends in this story? I’m confused… maybe that was an accidental plural pronoun?

Regardless, people who are inconsistant leading up to your wedding may be unreliable on your wedding day. 

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