(Closed) Help, am I being too involved! ? Bridal Shower

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
533 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Is there a chance she is throwing you a surprise shower?  If she is really good at throwing parties and usually very organized it could explain why she is MIA for planning the shower/bachelorette.

Post # 4
482 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

honestly- let it go, its up to her to do….


Take a deep breath- Im sure you’ll have a great party-


(she may have something secret planned! and even if she doesnt — sit back, have a cocktail)



Post # 5
176 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@dotdotdoodlebot: I wouldn’t stress over it. I agree with the others, she may be doing it SURPRISE! style and maybe even wants you to sweat a bit!

Post # 7
2742 posts
Sugar bee

Yeah, I’d let it go. It’s not like you are me and you have two friends FIGHTING over your shower and now they won’t talk to each other. I WISH THEY HAD LEFT ME OUT so honestly, enjoy what you have. I’m sure she’s doing something for you.

Post # 8
4518 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

If it were me, I’d stop thinking about it. You can’t throw the parties for yourself, and your Maid/Matron of Honor knows that you want them; it’s up to her to plan it. As others have said, maybe she’s planning a surprise (but don’t get your hopes up for that…!). 

Post # 9
3267 posts
Sugar bee

I think you have to prepare yourself that there may not be a shower. It is not required and she may not be able to plan/host one for you.

Since you seem to want one, she also may be planning a surprise shower.

I think you should only be sending addresses and pseudo-planning messages if they are asked for. It can otherwise seem very pushy.

Post # 11
2775 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

Did she offer to plan a shower or bachelorette party?

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