Post # 46
Oh good. I love the b &w photos especially . FWIW, you both look serene and happy, no matter what the JOP did!
Post # 47
I’m so sorry to hear this important part of your wedding was ruined for you. I would not bother speaking with him, and what can you really get back from him if you do? Clearly he was difficult to track down weeks before the wedding (pet peeve of mine!!!) and went in KNOWINGLY unprepared, which to me is totally unacceptable. He should have referred you to someone else if he did not feel able enough to perform your ceremony.
I would just leave him an honest review wherever and whenever you can.
Post # 48
I just saw your photos – so beautiful!! You made an elegant bride.
I didn’t comment on the vow redo initially. I think it’s a great idea!