(Closed) Help! Bridesmaid dress must be ordered TODAY!

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee

Don’t ask her. Not enough notice.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I wouldn’t ask her.  At this point, I would worry that she’d feel like a back-up or replacement.  Plus there are all the logistical issues of her getting in to get the dress in a day and not knowing her budget.  If you want to include her, maybe you can have her be a reader or something.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@RunsWithBears:  Yup, agreed.

I became really close with a friend of mine after I had already chosen my bridal party.  We were casual friends prior to me getting engaged, then bonded a lot in the months following.  I briefly entertained the idea of adding her to our wedding party, but instead, I asked her to be my personal attendant.  She was very honored and said she feels like it’s “as good as being a bridesmaid, but I don’t have to buy a special dress!”  Laughing

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Agreed as well…don’t ask her.

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